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Deuteronomy 21:10-25:19

This Sedra deals with the social and economic life of the Chosen People. With the social and economic life of Western Civilization deteriorating, there is much that we can learn from these wise principles for the Holy Nation.

Marriage is foundational for a healthy society. Men and women need to come together, and have children, and raise the next generation. Since sin has touched every part of our being, we need laws to regulate marriage.

In our society, marriage is under attack. There are growing numbers who live together outside of marriage, and have children outside of marriage. The divorce rate has skyrocketed. First we deal with marriage and divorce.

Israel was allowed to fight in just wars. Among many peoples throughout history, women who were taken captive were raped or killed. This must not happen among God's Holy People. If a woman was taken captive, and a Jewish man was attracted to her, this is the procedure: she sheds the externals of the old life. she must shave off the hair of her head, trim her nails, remove her old clothes, and put on new clothes. She is casting off the old, and putting on the new (much like the children of God, redeemed by the Son of God, must cast off their old way of life, and put on a new way of life). She is allow a month for mourning - after all, it's possible that she will never see her parents again. After the month, she is eligible for marriage. If a Jewish man married a non-Jewish captive, and if she was then displeasing to him, he could divorce her - but then, she was a free woman. The man had sex with her, and humbled her. She had suffered enough; she has given enough of herself! She could not be sold into slavery, or mistreated.

Another situation regarding marriage. Under the older covenant, Jewish men were allowed to have more than one wife. If a man had two wives, and he really loved one, and tolerated or disliked the other, he couldn't overturn the law of inheritance, that the firstborn son is to receive a double portion. That was the right of the firstborn son; he was the head of the family, the priest of the family, and had special obligations, and was to receive a double portion of the inheritance.

Now we deal with the results of marriage - children. If a man and a woman had a stubborn and rebellious and disobedient son, devoted to partying - eating and drinking, and wouldn't change his ways when his parents tried to correct his behavior (imagine this scenario: "Sholomo, you lazy bum, go join your father in the field. The harvest is ready, and we have to bring it in immediately, before it is ruined. Go to work this morning!" "No mom, I've got other plans - me and a couple of friends are going to party like there's no tomorrow!"), they were entitled to take him to the elders of the city, announce his crimes to the leaders of the city, and that he was incorrigible, and have the son stoned to death. Good-for-nothing, rebellious, evil men, were not to be tolerated! "Anarchy in the home breeds anarchy in society" (Ryrie). My understanding is that this was rarely, if ever, carried out among the Jewish people - but this useful threat was always there!

The last two verses deal with the limits of disgracing a dead body. People in the ancient world, if they were particularly displeased with someone they considered to be a criminal, after they killed him, might hang his body on a tree - sometimes for a considerable period of time. The body would start decomposing, or be eaten by animals or birds (see Genesis 40:19). This disgusting practice was not to happen among the holy people. If a person was put to death, and if he had done something particularly bad, and violated the Law; if by the Law of the Lord he was considered to be cursed by God, his body could be hung on a tree - but the corpse had to be buried the same day as the execution.

Now, Rabbi Paul argues that all of us have violated the Law of God. All of us are under the curse of God. Each and every one of us deserve to be executed, and then be hung on a tree. But God sent His Son into this world, who perfectly kept all of God's Law; and then Yeshua died, and was hung on a tree - the cross. There He willingly became our Substitute.

Messiah was full of the blessing of God, perfectly obedient to His Father, full of eternal life and salvation, but on the tree planted on Golgotha's soil, He willingly substituted Himself for us, and took upon Himself the curse that all of us deserved. And those who believe in Him, and prove it by serving Him, receive His blessed life instead - a life filled with salvation, and life and righteousness!

We start chapter 22 with the instructions for property that is lost or missing. If you find a animal that is lost, or someone's missing property, you have an obligation to take responsibility for it, and care for it until it is claimed by your countryman. You are not allowed to neglect that animal or that missing property.

I had the opportunity to put this instruction into practice this week. I started taking Sweetie for a walk, and discovered that a neighbor's dog got loose. I really wanted to continue on my walk with Sweetie, but God's Word spoke to my conscience, and Sweetie and I made the effort to get the other dog out of the street, take custody of it, and call the owner. Sweetie and I had to take a shorter walk than I originally planned, but that's OK.

Next comes instruction regarding proper dressing. Men should not dress in women's clothes, and women should not dress in men's clothing. God purposely created us male and female, with differences in gender, and those differences in gender are not to be blurred. Those who want to engage in this kind of gender perversion and cross dress are engaging in something that is "toh-eh-vah" - an abomination, and make themselves detestable to the Lord. I don't like movies with this theme, like Robin Williams in Mrs Doubtfire, or Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie. The Lord is concerned with the wise use of the resources in creation, and so if you find a bird's nest with a mother bird along with eggs or young, you are only allowed to take the eggs or the young, but not the mother too. The mother needs to survive and replenish her young.

We ignored this principle and overhunted the buffalo. Some of the whale populations have been drastically reduced, and I recently read that some of the great fish populations are down by 90 percent due to overfishing. It's tragic and foolish and dishonors the Creator when we greedily overhunt or overfish.

When constructing a building, the safety of others must be a consideration. A fence must be built on a roof, so that no one may fall off. If you don't, and someone falls, you are responsible, you are negligent, and will be found guilty. Builder, contractor, homeowner, don't think to yourself: "But it will cost me more to install all those safety features." It will, but isn't the health, safety and well-being of human beings more important?

God has laws that He has built into His creation, and we want to respect those laws, and not sow two kinds of seeds in the same area, so that they become mixed, and infect other crops as well. In our day, there are many who want to mix genetic material from different species - adding spider DNA to goats is one recent example that comes to mind.

We are not to plow with an ox and a donkey together. They are not equally yoked. They will go at different rates. Their strengths and weaknesses are too great. Nor are we to be unequally yoked, by entering into relationship where we are out of step with the other. A Believer marrying a non-believer comes to mind ....

We are not to wear sha'atnez - clothing of wool and linen made from flax mixed together. We are to remember that we are a holy people, and are to be pure - unmixed with evil. Charles Ryrie observes that it is said that idolatrous priests wore garments of this mixture, thinking it to be magical.

On the positive side, we are to have tassels on the four corners of our outer garment. They remind us of God's laws. As we look at them we remember the Lord's commands. So, when we are out in the world, and look at the tassels on our clothes, we have a constant reminder that we are in the world to represent the Lord, and serve Him and do His commands.

From verses 14 to the end of the chapter, we have the statutes for sexual behavior. The men and women among the Holy People were not to engage in sexual activity before marriage. If a man married a woman, and later found out that she was not a virgin, that she had been sexually active before her marriage to him, she was to be executed in front of her father's house. What a horrible thing that would be, and what a lasting shame that would bring to her parents!

If the charge was false, and the woman and her family could prove that she indeed had been a virgin, then the man who brought the false charge against his wife was to be punished, and fined 100 shekels of silver - approximately 50 ounces worth, and the money given to the girl's father, because by falsely charging her he had besmirched her family's honor, which needed to be restored.

Young man, young woman, what you do, and how you conduct yourself, especially sexually, reflects on your whole family! Don't dishonor your mother and father, your people, yourself, and your God by engaging in sex outside of marriage.

If a man was found having sexual relations with a married woman, it is a very serious crime; they are violating the covenant between husband and wife, they are destroying the family unity, they may bring a bastard into the society, who won't grow up with a whole family. Both the man and the woman who commit adultery must die. This sheds some light on the situation mentioned in the book written by John, where it was only the woman who had been caught in adultery who was taken to Yeshua, for Him to pronounce judgment. If this was a fair trial, the man must be included as well.

The next situation about sexual behavior has to do with a virgin girl, engaged to be married, but is found to have had sex with another man. If this takes place in a city, where the woman could resist, and cry out, but she does not, then it is assumed that she was a willing participant, and is guilty.

But if this takes place outside the city, and no one is around, she is given the benefit of the doubt; it is assumed that the woman was not a willing participant. She is not guilty.

If a man is attracted to a virgin woman, who is not engaged, and seduces her or rapes her, this sad situation can be redeemed. He must atone to the parents by giving them 50 shekels of silver - about 25 ounces. He must marry the girl, take care of her, and provide for her the rest of her life. He can never divorce her.

The last situation in this chapter deals with preventing a man from marrying his step-mother. A father and his son were never to share the same woman. That must not happen. If your father died, you did inherit his property, but you didn't inherit his wife, as may have occurred in other societies.

Chapter 23 deals with those who can be considered part of the community of Israel: no man who has had his genitals removed - I would think as part of some pagan religious practice, and not in an accident, or due to a injury in battle - could be counted as a part of the community of Israel.

No momzer - a child from a forbidden relationship, like adultery, or incest, could ever become a member of Israel; nor could his descendants, even to the tenth generation - which in essence meant forever.

No Ammonite or Moabite men could become part of the community of Israel. They had shown nothing but hostility to the Jewish people, and they were to be avoided. The women could become part of Israel, if they, like Ruth, turned to the God of Israel.

Edomites and Egyptians, however, were another situation. They could not become part of the Jewish community, but the third generation that descended from them could. So, if an Egyptian man married a Jewish woman, and had children with her, and those children married other Jewish people, the grandchildren were considered to be part of the community of Israel.

When Israel went out to fight a just war, we men had to keep ourselves pure. We had to keep our camp clean in God's sight. We didn't want to alienate our Great Ally, who was with us, who we depended on to bring us victory! So, if a man had a nocturnal emission of semen, he became unclean. He had to go outside the camp. Then if he bathed in water, he became clean at sunset, the beginning of a new day, and then could reenter the camp.

Human excrement had to be properly disposed of. So each man was required to carry a shovel and go to the area for the latrine, and cover up his excrement. Basic hygiene is important!

In many societies, slaves were terribly mistreated. God's Law did not allow them to be abused. If a slave ran away from a non-Jewish master, he was not to be returned to that master. He was to be given refuge, and allowed to live within Israel.

Canaanite religion involved temple prostitutes - both male and female. The sons and daughters of Israel must never engage in this perverse behavior, which was an abomination. Money that was earned as the result of sexual perversion - male or female prostitution, was to be rejected, even if it was attempted to be given to the House of God.

Interest is not to be charged to a fellow member of covenant community. Our attitude is to use the extra resources that the Lord has blessed us with to help the members of the community. We can charge interest to those outside of the community, however.

If you promise to give something to the Lord, you should do it right away. Don't delay! That would displease the Almighty, and cause Him to seek you out for punishment. Better not to make a vow or promise if you aren't serious about keeping it.

If you were passing by a neighbor's vineyard or field of grain, and you were hungry, you could eat some grapes or pluck some grain to satisfy your hunger, but you could not take any home with you. It would be like going to an all-you-can-eat buffet, and asking for a doggie bag - very tacky, and wrong! "Hunger, not greed, may be satisfied. Kindness must not be abused" (Hertz Commentary).

Chapter 24 gives us additional laws regarding marriage. Under the covenant made with us at Sinai, divorce is allowed (see Leviticus 21:7, Numbers 30:9). If a man divorces his wife because he has found "ervat devar" - something indecent, an indecent thing, in her (and the implication is that she is guilty of improper sexual behavior), then he could divorce her. He had to write her a formal document, a certificate that indicated that they were cut off from each other.

She was then allowed to remarry. But, if the second husband divorced her, or died, she was not allowed to remarry the first husband. The idea is to prevent a kind of legalized adultery from taking place, or the wife from being swapped. Adultery and wife swapping is an abomination, and those sins, and all sexual sin, brings sin to the nation, which the Lord must eventually punish. I understand that quite a bit of adultery, and wife-swapping is taking place in our nation today. Sexually immorality is rampant. It displeases the Lord, and adds more drops to our cup of iniquity, which is rapidly getting fuller and fuller.

If a man was newly married, he was absolved from serving in the army for one year. He could stay at home, and make his bride happy.

Here are some social laws concerning economics: if you were in debt to someone, you couldn't be charged interest, but a pledge could be taken - some piece of property that you the creditor would keep until the loan was repaid. But, it couldn't be something that would harm the man's ability to live - like a millstone, by which he ground grain to make his food. If he pledged his cloak, it had to be returned to him at the end of the day, so he could sleep in it and not be cold.

Nor could a creditor enter the home of a person to take his pledge. Even though he was poor, his dignity, and the sanctity of his home was still to be respected. Employees are to be paid on time. If you contracted with them to pay them on a daily basis, they need to be paid at the end of each day, so that they can buy what they need to survive.

Because someone is weaker than you - an alien, a widow or orphan, you are not to take advantage of them. You are to treat them with kindness and fairness. We of all people show know this, because we were aliens in Egypt, and weak, and the Egyptians mistreated us, and so we should never repeat their sin. So, don't think that the weak and the poor are worthless, and not worthy of your help. You were weak and poor in Egypt, and the Lord helped you, didn't He? When harvesting our crops, we were to leave some of the crops for the poor to harvest. We don't squeeze out every shekel from the harvest, but we think of the poor around us, to make sure that they are provided for. God promises to bless those with this generous, godly attitude.

Kidnaping is a terrible, terrible crime, and kidnapers are to be put to death. They have crossed a very important line, and aren't to be tolerated.

Punishment must be limited to the perpetrator: parents must not be put to death for the sins of their children, and children must not be put to death for the sins of their parents. Everyone is to be put to death for their own sins.

Chapter 25 starts off with laws for the penal system: if you felt that you were harmed by a fellow Israeli, you could bring the matter to the court. If a crime had been committed, the criminal could be punished with a whipping, with a maximum of 40 lashes. Over time the Jewish community reduced this to 39 lashes, to make sure that the limit was never exceeded by mistake, and God's Law violated (see 2 Corinthians 11:24).

Notice that no one was sent to jail for months or years. Under God's judicial system, there were no jails, which are expensive to operate, and generally don't reform the prisoner, but only make him worse.

If a person was a menace to society, and incorrigible, he could be killed. But if a person could be redeemed, he was fined, or whipped, and then it was over. His punishment was quick, and the man was back on track with his life.

I can't helping wondering if the Torah's system isn't superior to our present judicial and penal system. Speaking from experience, there were times in my youth where I could have used a good whipping.

Don't muzzle the ox while he is threshing your grain. Even the ox, if he is working, deserves a portion of the crops, and can eat some of the harvest. If the Lord is concerned that animals are treated fairly, and reimbursed for their labors, how much more should employers pay a fair wage to their employees! And, those who are employed by God's Holy Community should be paid well as well! Rabbi Glenn and I are thankful to you, the generous people of Congregation Shema Yisrael, for honoring us in this way.

Widows needed to be provided for, and the family name needed to be carried on, so if a man died without an heir, the brother of the dead husband had the obligation to marry the widow. The first-born son bears the name of the dead husband. If the brother was unwilling to marry his brother's widow, and raise an heir for his brother, he was publically humiliated by having his sandal pulled off, and being spit at. This law forms part of the story in the book of Ruth. Do you remember the name of the relative who was closer to the family of Elimelech than Boaz, who refused to marry Ruth? None of us remember his name, because he was not considered worthy to have his name mentioned!

If two men are fighting, the wife of one must not interfere by grabbing the genitals of the other man. That's dirty fighting, and very painful, it's perverse, and the damage may cause the man to become infertile, and prevent him from bringing new lives into this world. The punishment is one of the most severe - cutting off the women's hand. I would speculate that since the penalty was so severe, no women in Israel ever dared to do such a thing! This penalty was eventually reduced to a fine.

The Lord demands honesty in the way we earn our living, and conduct ourselves in business. In the ancient world, buying and selling, paying and receiving payment, was commonly done by the weighing on a scale. Those who wanted to cheat you would have differing weights and differing measures. They would have a weight that weighed less for what they paid and a weight that weighed more for what they received; this was done to cheat, but it was done deceptively, disguised as doing right. Cheating in business is an abomination to the Lord of righteousness.

We way the Holy Nation was to relate to Ammonites, Moabites, Edomites and Egyptians was given before. The Parasha ends with the way we are to relate to the Amalekites. They showed predatory hatred and aggressive hostility for us, and mercilessly killed our weaken stragglers when the Lord was saving us out of Egypt. They would never change, and would not be redeemed, and Israel was to give them no quarter, but blot out their name from under Heaven.

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