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Colossians 3:1-4:6 The Proper Way to Live

In the letter written to the Colossians, Rabbi Paul writes to a community of Believers that was doing well, but was also being challenged by non-Biblical ideas, erroneous ideologies and false religious thinking that were trying to work their way into the faith of the Church. Paul faced this challenge in three ways: first, he pointed them to Messiah - Messiah is sufficient for all the problems that they (and we) will encounter. Second, he prayed for them. Third, he reminded them of the proper way to live. This morning I want to cover the third area - the way we are to live.

In chapter 3 beginning with verse 1, the Rabbi from Tarsus tells us that we must have the right perspective. We are to develop a heavenly perspective. We are to keep seeking - not a one time, initial seeking, but an all-throughout-our-life kind of seeking of the things above - heavenly things, things that are of ultimate importance. Things that will last. Things that will make it to Heaven with us. Things that the Lord of Heaven approves of. Things that are worthy of a reward from God, and will bring us honor on the Day of Judgment.

Don’t set your mind on the things that are on Earth. Don’t live for this world!

There are two main areas that characterize those who live for this world - sexual immorality and greed. Don’t be a materialistic, greedy person, who is never satisfied with the things that they have, who always wants more and more things, bigger houses, more money, more things, nicer clothes, flashier cars, the latest fashions. Don’t be a person who isn’t satisfied with God-ordain sex within marriage. Restrain your sexual desires.

Verse 8 teaches us that it is natural for fallen human beings to hate. It is easy for us to give in to hatred. Son of God, daughter of the Merciful One, you must make a decision not to be someone who hates, someone who is angry with others, who speaks badly about others, who distorts the truth about others.

In verse 9 the Rabbi from Tarsus tells us that fallen human beings find it natural to lie. Even though it is easy to lie, you can’t be a liar. God is truth. Messiah is faithful and true. Make sure that you speak the truth. Be a person of integrity in all of your communications. Liars will end up in the Lake of Fire, so don’t lie!

In verses 10-11 Paul encourages us that we can no longer live like we lived before the Lord revealed Himself to us, and imparted us with His Holy Spirit, and began transforming us so that we are more and more like Him and more like Messiah - truthful, honorable, gracious, loving, righteous and dependable. It doesn’t matter if you are a Messianic Jew or a Messianic Gentile, educated and cultured or from the simplest background, rich or poor - God’s purpose is to make you more and more like our wonderful Messiah and eldest brother. So, that the goal, and that is what we are to strive to become, so all of us need to cooperate with God as He transforms us by His Holy Spirit into the image of Messiah.

According to verse 12, God has chosen you to be with Him, and to live forever with Him, enjoying Him and being enjoyed by Him; having the Lord as your eternal God, and you being one of His eternal people. Think of it. God ha chosen you so that He is your loving Father, Yeshua is your elder brother and friend, the saints are your family, and the angels your servants.

You are holy - set apart to achieve remarkable things; God has reserved you to accomplish magnificent purposes. You are separate from those who will perish along with this corrupt world. So, make sure that you live a holy and pure life. Separate yourself from all that is wrong. Dedicate yourself to living for the holy God!

God loves you! The infinite and all wise and all powerful Creator of the universe not only knows about you, but He actually feels passionately and warmly toward you! Love Him in return! Feel passionately and warmly toward Him, and if you truly love this Supreme Being who loves you, show it by obeying Him, and serving Him, and living for Him.

Instead of being mean, angry and hateful, with the Lord’s help, and with His grace, and because of the new nature that He has already given you, and because of the indwelling power of His Spirit, be compassionate to the sufferings, hardship, problems and difficulties of others. Be sensitive to a world that is suffering and try to help. Try to alleviate the suffering of others.

You can be kind and gentle - not mean; humble, not arrogant, not full of pride, not thinking more of yourself than you should, not exalting yourself above others, not acting independently of God, knowing that you are a creature, and because of His will you were created, and that you exist to fulfill what He wants, and that you are alive to serve God and please Him in all respects.

You can make a decision to be patient, not impatient, not easily angered, not short-tempered. You can decide not to hold grudges, not build up resentments, but instead be a person who easily and readily forgives others, knowing that the Lord forgave you your many very real and serious offenses, and so you must forgive those who have offended you.

Be a person who loves. Love means being a giver, not a taker. It means doing what is best for the one that you feel affection toward. Do good for those around you. Do what is best for them. Help them, take care of them, meet their needs, bless them even when they may not deserve it. That is love. Do this especially for the Community of Believers. If you do this, the community will experience unity. It will be a refuge from the fighting and chaos and turmoil of the world. It will be the kind of place that you want to be, and others want to be.

Paul tells us in verse 15 that because of Messiah, the Prince of Peace, who made atonement for you, you have peace with God. You are no longer His enemy. You have a good relationship with Him. God is on His throne. He won’t allow anything to happen to you that is outside of His will. Have faith that even the difficult things that the trials that you encounter are part of His plan, and that He is working all things together for your good.

Let this knowledge fill your soul with peace. Take this peace that you have with God, and this peace that is in your soul, and pursue peace with the other children of God. Strive to have peace in the community of believers.

The world is full of tension and turmoil. It is so nice when brothers dwell together in unity, when the members of the community aren’t fighting among themselves. You know that people are struggling with all kinds of problems; they have many stresses; they are struggling with all kinds of issues; they are fighting their battles; they are imperfect; they are a work in progress. Overlook petty offense, ignore slights, forgive, try to get along and be at peace them. Work out your problems with those who are part of our community.

It is part of fallen human nature to be thankless. You are not to be that way. Be thankful. Cultivate thankfulness. Be a person who is grateful. Express your gratitude to God often for His providential care for you, for His continual unseen activity on your behalf, creating you, sustaining you, keeping you alive, endowing you with gifts and talents, abilities and opportunities, for all the good things that you enjoy. Thank Him for life, for salvation, for hope, for love, for sending the Messiah. And, don’t limit your thankfulness to God - express thankfulness and show appreciation to anyone who does something good for you.

According to verse 16, let the word of Messiah richly dwell within you. Become intimately familiar with the Word of God, especially everything in it that points to, or is focused on the Messiah - which is pretty much most of it! Don’t leave the Holy Scriptures on the bookshelf. Don’t leave it unread. Read it, study it, meditate on it, think about it, hear it being taught, so that you are familiar with it, and know its story from beginning to end, and it’s teachings are readily accessible to you, until this book of books becomes alive, living, dwelling in you.

Interact with it frequently, day by day, moment by moment, applying it to every situation that you encounter. Let it inform your thinking, transform your mind, form your opinions, guide your thoughts, direct your decisions. Be a person of the Book. If you do, your life will be a true success, and other people will know that you are someone who knows and is committed to the Holy Scriptures.

Be one of God’s true worshipers. He is worthy of your praise, your devotion, your admiration. He is seeking those who will worship Him in Spirit and in truth. Worship Him every day, not just when the congregation assembles. Music, songs and lyrics are a great asset in the worship of God. They help us remember truths about God. Learn some good praise songs that you can sing to Him throughout the day.

With your knowledge of the Word of God, and with your arsenal of good songs, sound doctrine and good theology, teach others. The rabbi is not the only teacher in the congregation. If you see someone straying in practice or in teaching, embracing false teaching, or getting ensnared in some sin, don’t be silent! Be your brother’s keeper. Be a good friend and go and admonish them. Lovingly correct them with the truth.

Skipping down to chapter 4 verse 2, the one sent by God to reach and teach the Gentiles tells us to be devoted to prayer. To be devoted to something means that you are committed to it. You are given to it, giving it the serious amount of time and attention that it deserves. Discipline yourself to turn your mind and your thoughts throughout the day to talking with God, talking with Him about things that are interesting to you. Pray that what you have read in the Bible becomes part of your life. Thank God for the interesting things that come to your attention and pray about everything that strikes you powerfully. Praise Him for the Supreme Being that He is, and for the wonderful things that He has done, is doing now, and will do forever. Intercede for yourself and for others, for our congregation, for the Jewish community, the Messianic Jewish movement, the church, the world, the government. Try to cultivate special periods of time alone with the Lord.

Back to chapter 3, verse 17: everything you do, your words, your actions, your prayers, your songs, your attitudes, your goals, your priorities, should be done in the name of Yeshua the Lord - reflecting who He is. It should be something He would do, something that He would say, something that reflects well on Him.

Starting with verse 18, Paul tells us that if we are to live properly, we must have right relationships.

Wives, love, honor, respect, be subject to and obey your husbands. He is the head of the home. He is the God-ordained leader of the family. The final decisions are his. Talk to him. Give him your advice. Even if our society encourages you to do so, don’t challenge his leadership. Don’t give him a hard time.

Husbands, love your wives. Treat them well. Be sensitive to her needs. Make her happy. Talk to her. Do not allow anger, bitterness and resentment to develop between you. Do everything you can to work out your problems with her. Love her, and make her happy, and she will make you happy.

Children, be obedient to your parents. They are the Lord’s God-ordained leaders for you. He used them to bring you into being. He is using them to provide for you. He is using them to teach you. Don’t be disobedient. Don’t be rebellious. Don’t be disrespectful. Don’t give them a hard time. You’ll be 18 and out of the house soon enough. In the meantime, please the Lord by obeying mom and dad.

Fathers, when you correct your children, and every good father will need to correct his children, since foolishness is bound up in the heart of children, do so lovingly and patiently. Be firm, be a good disciplinarian, but don’t be too harsh with them.

Slaves, and in our situation today - employees, be good and diligent workers. Don’t be mediocre, but work hard - not only when the boss is around, but when he is not looking. Understand that you are really working for the Lord. He has given you your talents, your skills, your job opportunities. Working for a living is His will for your life, so look at your job as part of your service to God, and do excellent work that is worthy of Him. And, if you do, He will reward you at the proper time.

In verse 5, masters, employers are instructed to treat their employees fairly. Don’t take advantage of them. Don’t work them too hard, or pay them too little, or treat them too harshly. Remember that you are not the ultimate boss. You may be a boss here for a little while, but you are working for the ultimate Boss, the CEO of the Universe! If you don’t treat your employees properly, and you will have to answer to Him!

Regarding outsiders, those outside of the community of believers, those outside of salvation, be wise making the most of the opportunities the Lord gives you with them. Their greatest need is salvation, so use your various interactions with them to help them find God and eternal life. Tell them what they need to know. Martha’s great-grandmother was a good example of this. She had the heart of an evangelist, and she would go into the shops of Jewish people in Toronto that she wanted to tell about the Lord. She might buy a little something to give her an opportunity to interact with the shop owner, and tell him about the salvation that was available through the Messiah.

Speak to everyone graciously, so that it as if your words are seasoned with salt. Salt preserves. Salt adds flavor. Your speech should be gracious, useful, intelligent, and not be useless, dull, erroneous or obscene.

May the good Lord enable each one of us to fulfill His Word, and live in a proper way!

Shalom,
Rabbi Loren

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